The bond that babies and parents form is a process. A child becomes attached to their parents based on their being together everyday and their instincts. With this bond, a sense of belonging to each other is built between the parent and the infant.
There are times where infants easily bond with their parents. Unfortunately, there are times where the bond between infant and parent becomes difficult to accomplish. According to a 2014 research study about the bond of an infant with a parent, one in four infants does not easily bond with their parents. This is a situation either the parent or the infant do not want to be a part of.
It is not always that bonding happens immediately between the parent and the child. If you and your child have not formed a bond yet, do not lose hope! Bear in mind that bonding sometimes takes some time. A lot of factors come into play for the bond of the parent and the infant to form. Oftentimes, mothers who have given birth via C-section find it hard to establish a bond with their newborn. They are not able to easily embrace their newborns after they have given birth. This is usually the part where a psychological gap is made between them. Moreover, for newborns who are born premature, they have to stay longer in the intensive care units. This situation again delays the bonding with their parents as they are kept away from them longer.
Most of the time, compared with mothers, fathers will have a difficult time bonding with their newborns as they do not nurse their newborns unlike their partners. Furthermore, they do not usually have skin-to-skin contact with their babies. Owing to the fact that most fathers are breadwinners, they spend most of their time away from their babies. But this does not mean that the father cannot bond with their child, they can still do so. Some of the things that they can do to bond with their child include bathing their babies, comforting them, preparing their baby food, feeding them, changing their diapers, and many more.
Some things that you can do to easily form a bond with their newborns
The best way to form a bond with your bundle of joy is to spend as much time as you can with them. After birth, make sure to ask your health care professionals if your newborn can be roomed in with you. In case your newborn will be kept in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), visit your newborn as much as you can. You can get some permission if it will be fine to hold your baby, sing to them, and talk to them. A lot of new mothers use baby carriers or slings to have their babies close to them. These are better options than using a stroller for your baby. Babies love being close to their parents. They feel more secure and warmer. Now as your baby grows, you can then go walking or grocery shopping with them. This will not just help your baby appreciate better and explore the world but also help the both of you bond better.